BDSM Gear

This site has a bunch of adult toys, lingerie, and movies. You've likely seen these brands and products on a million other online stores. Whenever I run into a business like this, I look for the things that can set them apart...customer service and product descriptions. This site does offer measurements and runtimes (most of the time). They also have a size chart. That is great! They even have a FAQ, and there is customer service information on shipping and privacy. The problem? The contact info is just an online form. I really don't like that. Be sure to note the 30% restocking fee on items that can actually be returned. I wasn't impressed. The lack of contact info really tore it for me. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Mainstream Video/DVD, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

This sex toy site offers many of the usual suspects from Doc Johnson, California Exotic Novelties, Fun Factory, Kama Sutra, njoy, Fleshlight, and more. The site has a very clean and easy to navigate design, and the descriptions of the products are thorough and helpful. In addition to sex toys and safer sex supplies, they offer novelties for bachelorette/bachelor parties and some limited fetish/bondage stuff (including enema devices). There is sound on the index page, and I recommend going there just to hear the digital host say the word "dildos". Customer service, shipping, contact, and other info are all available and easy to find. A nice, clean, and well designed shop with quite a few high quality toys. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-21
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

This UK shop offers a dizzying array of high quality electrostimulation devices! You'll find control boxes, remotes, insertables, electrodes, furniture, and accessories. The descriptions of the merchandise are quite thorough, and they all have pictures. One of the coolest little tools available is the ABox, a control box that can deliver audio driven electro stimulation. What does that mean? It means that you can have someone writhing along to music, or tell them that if they make a noise they will definitely be rewarded/punished with immediate feedback. I just love that! There is an electric pony device here as well, and it is a unique piece of furniture based on the classic "suspension horse" or "spanish pony". It has a steel contact bar running the length of it, and it definitely would supply a novel experience. The customer service and contact info is superb, and you can contact these folks a variety of ways. Payment is through credit card, debit card, and cheque/postal order (for UK residents only). They have a store devoted to their US clients as well, and they deliver just about anywhere that it is legal to. I think this is a great little shop! If you are interested in electrostimulation play, please make sure to do your homework about safety. It seems that the shop owners are quite open to communication with clients to determine how to best meet your needs, and they most likely can point you in the right direction for safety information as well. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-20
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, International Sites, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

This website sells various BDSM products, and it appears that they often do business over at a popular online auction site. I checked the rating on that site, and they seem to have done a lot of business and have a high amount of positive feedback. The problem? This website is not through that auction site, and all of the contact info appears to be email only. I would be pretty nervous about that. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2008-08-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

If you always wanted to have a bondage dungeon in your house but couldn't think of a way to explain to the kids why their playroom is now filled with hooks and chains, then you should definitely check out the Tetruss. Tetruss makes a portable, lightweight, freestanding bondage and suspension rig that you can fold up and store under your bed when it's not in use. The rig looks great and there are beautiful photos (including galleries) all over the site demonstrating many of the different ways to dangle your sub in it. Tetruss also sells accessories to go with their rig (stirrups, spreader bar, etc) and offers package deals. I don't do much bondage play myself, but now even I want one - it looks like so much fun to use! Payment is through Paypal, though they may also accept other forms of payment (check, money order) at e-mail request. No info about returns posted on the site. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-07-30
Cost: $599.00 for the rig + $50 S&H (in US) Advertising Content: n/a
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

Chained Heart is a kinky little adult shop that specializes in bondage and (limited) fetish gear. They really don't have a lot of stock and the site could use some work, but this online shop does have some neat items (stuff like fisting gel, 6 kinds of canes, hoods, etc). Chained Heart also offers a free gift with every order over 50 pounds and free shipping in the EU, so I'm sure kinksters across the pond will appreciate that. The return policy is fairly restrictive (as most sites are that sell intimate products) so it's good to read it before buying. - Shay

Date Reviewed: 2008-06-05
Cost: free to browse Advertising Content: n/a
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, International Sites

Cock Power is the spec-cock-ular offspring of Spartacus Leather. The site features all manner of leather, rubber, metal and nitrile product to decorate and enhance your favorite penis. Items range from simple cock rings to wicked looking stretchers, weights and chastity devices. In other words, you'll find something for your dick no matter what level of sensation you're after. CockPower.com shows explicit pictures of the products in use, which is both informative and darn sexy. In addition, site users can participate in forums and read articles on safety, materials and techniques. The returns policy is restrictive, as you'd expect for this sort of product, but it's all clearly spelled out in the FAQs. - AAG » More Info!

Date Reviewed: 2008-04-28
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

Finally, a sex toy store dedicated to male sexuality! They call themselves Gay Boyz Toys, but the toys sold here can be used by men of any sexual orientation. GBT is a California based business and their stock ranges from anal toys and bondage gear, to electrical toys and insertables, and a whole lot more. I was quite impressed with both the quality of the products they stock and the price points. In addition to toys, they also sell some DVDs and have a Pay Per View gay video theatre attached to the site. Their return policy is laid out very clearly, as are their ordering and shipping policies. - Wolfe

Date Reviewed: 2008-03-13
Cost: free Advertising Content: nil
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

This British Columbia company creates custom fitted bondage furniture. The photography of representative samples all look good. Unfortunately, no prices - even ball park figures - or shipping cost estimates or return policy or anything else is listed on the site. They do mention that they are only sample images and that they sell only custom via negotiation rather than from the website directly, but some sort of rough estimates of expense and the legal details of shipment and returns would be very helpful, and would probably move this to a Quality rating. - Peter

Date Reviewed: 2008-02-25
Cost: Free site Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

This site offers a wide selection of toys - for the most part their own ideas and craftsmanship - to help players live up to their motto: "Don't play nice - play safe!" Canes, floggers, collars, chastity devices, bra's with inward facing sharp points, dungeon furniture, and more. Some, a minority, of the items [dildos, padlocks, boots, bondage tape, etc] are not their manufacture. They offer full information about shipping options, and a 100% satisfaction guarantee. Simply put, they guarantee their products for a lifetime. Testimonials on the site include one from a customer who had their shipment lost by the post office and the folks at Taboo quickly replaced it. International payment is best arranged ahead of ordering via email. Payment domestically [Taboo is in Southern California] is via PayPal. If you are local to them you can pick up your order and save on any shipping charges. I liked that they had models realistically modeling their items, and that their own products are obviously not cookie-cutter mass produced toys. They appear to be made by people who appreciate them. They do offer a few tips for safe SM play. Details are clear [for example, next to a photograph of a specialty necklace-hung knife: "The cast metal handle slips neatly onto a finger for a claw-like fit. The blade is 2.5 inches and the knife is 6 inches overall. The 22 inch long chain is removable...Perfect for violet wand play." That is the sort of information that can help you to make your purchase decision. - Peter

Date Reviewed: 2007-12-10
Cost: Free site Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

Branded Butterfly is the creative outlet for Katie, an artist with a special interest in BDSM relationships. Her site features handmade treasure boxes, collages and other personalized items, including a few related to age-play. Coming soon will be a collection of paddles. Any of Katie's products would make a nice gift for that hard-to-shop-for kinkster in your life. Katie provides very clear ordering instructions, especially as they relate to personalization. Payment is accepted through PayPal; Branded Butterfly ships only within the US. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-12-04
Cost: free Advertising Content: nil
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies, Uncategorizable

I love the name of this site. Who wouldn't want a paddle from a company called Burning Butt Creations? Unfortunately, that's about the only positive thing I can say about the site. Well, the photos of the fifteen paddles currently available look quite lovely, but there are NO descriptions of these products. I would have loved to have known how large and heavy the paddles are an of what materials they are made. None of this information is available. Nor is there any indication of return policies. If you click on the "shop" link below a paddle, you'll be taken to an off-site secure ordering page. No information is given about shipping prices or delivery schedules. You will, however, find out that "Burning Butt Creations" will appear on your credit card statement. This is perhaps not something that every shopper would appreciate. Burning Butt, your products look fabulous but your site needs work. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-11-26
Cost: free Advertising Content: nil
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

Near the Seattle area, Jerry and Rick have been manufacturing quality BDSM gear for over a decade now. There is an impressive selection of floggers in all kinds of materials: rubber, deerhide, suede, bullhide and several others. They also carry collars and cuffs, bondage bars, hardware and so on. Privacy policy is good, shipping is free on orders over $75, tollfree phone ordering or order online via secure server. - Jane

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-31
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

Having made fetish gear myself in the past, I recognize original and quality designs when I see them. Scott Paul has created really unique fetish products, including cages, gags, cuffs and collars, and spanking toys. All items have good descriptions and nice big enlargeable photos. His shipping and return policies are very fair - any product can be returned within 30 days and the site ships worldwide. Accepted methods of payment are Visa or Mastercard. - Wolfe

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-29
Cost: Free Advertising Content: None
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

I will not hesitate to tell you that I want one of everything offered at AslanLeather.com. Since 1991, owner Carrie Gray has been creating the highest quality BDSM and fetish wear from leather, rubber and vinyl. Their harnesses are absolutely gorgeous, as are their hoods, whips and chastity belts. Aslan Leather carries a nice line of toys that can be used in their dildo harnesses; they also have a selection of vegan items for those who don't want to use leather products. Many of their products are available in larger sizes. They'll custom design products to your specifications, if you don't find something on the site to your liking. And perhaps best of all? AslanLeather.com offers a lifetime guarantee that their products will not break during normal usage. If something does break, Aslan will repair or replace it; plenty of contact options are available on the site. Very cool. I'm so in love with the idea of their leather dildos. I must have one. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-10-10
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Sex Toys / Safer Sex Supplies

Martin Page, the owner of UK-based RGL Designs, has been creating quality BDSM gear since 1989. If you can't find what you need in his new online store, he'll work out a design with you. How cool is that? He'll even customize stock items to your particular size or preference. RGL shows a wide range of bondage gear, paddles, floggers, gags and harnesses. The floggers in particular look lovely, and I'm not just saying that because I neeeeed a flogger of my own. Unused or defective items can be returned up to seven days after purchase for either replacement or refund. Prices are listed in pounds. - AAG

Date Reviewed: 2007-09-14
Cost: free Advertising Content: low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear

This is a very cool site featuring original hand molded 100% latex-free rubber designs by Anzjalise! As a fetishist that has developed a latex allergy over the years, I can tell you that is music to my ears. Another unique property of her work is that you can order fire resistant (not fire proof) gear as well, which is really neat for fire dancing! She has posted images of burn tests, so you can compare her fire resistant rubber with other materials. The gear design is quite nice and customizable. She can make original stuff just for you, or you can order things from the site and specify colors and sizes. The color selection is pretty broad and includes really neat options like blacklight reactive hues. There are some pretty unique offerings like rubber purses, bic lighter holders, cigarette holsters and such. I think my favorite gear includes the three dimensional pieces that look like they are covered in actual bone, those are brilliant! There is a very nice FAQ and a good set of care instructions for the work. Purchase appears to be through Paypal, but that company does seem to be a lot more open about clubwear. So far I haven't heard of anyone getting burned for that, as it isn't usually classified as pornographic. Still, Paypal always makes me nervous. The gear is wonderful though, and I was very excited by the unique designs and options! Be sure to check out the repair and replacement policies in the contact section. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-22
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Fetish Wear

This site discusses erotic rope bondage influenced by Japanese methods. The site owner runs workshops on this topic over in the UK, and you can find his class schedule and information on this site. Aside from that, you'll find some very nice writing on the topic of choosing and caring for rope, why people enjoy bondage, safety info, and more. In the safety section, be aware that some of the info after "where not to tie" may be invisible to your browser. So, be sure to highlight that area to see the text if you cannot see it otherwise. There is some good information down there! For those looking for pretty pics and videos, you'll enjoy the free gallery section that you can view by registering for a username and password. You'll see some familiar locations (like Torture Garden) and familiar people (like KumiMonster). If you are looking for a good place to buy jute, this site offers it and high quality karabiners. The items are described well, but I always advise caution about purchasing through paypal. Paypal has burnt many an adult site owner and buyer. There are links to outside shops too. Contact info includes email and phone. A nice site with some good information, and the free gallery is lots of fun. Obviously a labor of love! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-19
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM / Fetish Video, BDSM Gear, BDSM Resources, Female Bondage, Male Bondage

While reviewing this site I found that I constantly had to remind myself not to spend my paycheck while visiting. If you are looking for artistic, romantic, and really special looking BDSM collars and cuffs you have to check this place out. All of their items are hand crafted, and their eye for design is incredible. Whatever your taste, you'll find something surprising and beautiful here. In addition to the BDSM gear they have some jewelry and decorative locks as well. Most items can be made in custom sizes without additional charge, and they are willing to make variations on existing designs too. They have very clear policies and obviously take a lot of pride in their creations (as they should). Really beautiful stuff, especially for the person with visions of vampires, princesses, and harem girls dancing in their heads. Gorgeous. If you are going to offer someone a collar, you should make it special. - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-11
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Fetish Wear

Great Googly Moogly! I think I have to fan myself for a bit before I start this review. Whew! This site sells vac beds made from black, red, or transparent .014" latex and heavy pvc pipe. For those of you that are wondering what the heck a vac bed is, imagine slipping into an envelope of latex and then having all the air within it sucked out until it is hugging every inch of you tightly. In a word, yum. This particular company offers some interesting variations on the design. The standard bed is 40" X 84", which makes it a lot bigger than those offered most places. They make custom sizes and colors available for an extra charge. They offer luscious options like a double-wide, genital openings, head openings, a gasmask vacbed, and even a really cool vacbox (which must be seen to be appreciated). The designs break down for storage, and they must be kept turned on during play (and you supply the vac). There is a really nice FAQ on site that has instructions, safety info, latex care tips, and such. One of the most important tips is that this is not a solo toy. They give clear shipping and returns info. It also appears that they have run into issues with paypal (such as I often warn about), so they are now going through Red Room Media for sales (and I've heard no complaints about those folks yet). They have a bunch of free videos and galleries, if you are a rubber or latex fetishist you'll kick yourself if you miss this stuff. If you enjoy what you see, you can purchase a DVD featuring their products. Hot! Hot! Hot! - Vamp

Date Reviewed: 2007-06-05
Cost: Free Advertising Content: Low
Category Listings: BDSM Gear, Latex / PVC / Rubber